You should've considered the idea that they there once were four in a certain way. I don't think you have come to that point yourself.
Were there once four? How can I consider the idea if I hear it for the first time? Do you mean that I should know such details about you? How?
I don`t understand the last sentence. "you have come to that point yourself"- I haven`t come to any point, I know you have three children, that`s it.
I just repeated your post. That is true.
Please, PM me if you feel like, since you`ve mentioned such personal details.