I never understood why people (obviously) take it so personally. Its a name for Chrissakes. I share everyone's animosity towards him, but who cares if you use his name or not? Its like Lee Harvey Oswald or whatever. I got admonished then booted from another Beatle site about 2 years ago just for replying to someone's post and using his name because "it is too upsetting for some people to see his name." Get over it. Its not honouring him at all. Unfortunately, there is no way to turn back time or change what happened, but I don't get why people get so bent over a name, especially since it is never used in a positive or favourable context. If it comes up in topic, so what? I find it more offensive that NBC gave him an hour of airtime about his upbringing, his tapes, etc., all leading to the crescendo at the Dakota. For the first time, I finally agree with something that wuss-ass Elliot Mintz said, and that was his questioning of why he should get any publicity at all.