Sorry! You know I love you. And I understand how it feels when some comments just really affect you. I feel the same way about my weight. It seems no matter what, I can never make up for being overweight. You'd think getting into a prestigious university and making a ton of friends would mean something to my mom, but no.
I don't know what it is with family. It seems like they are always saying things to hurt you, thinking that it will make you a better person. But in the end, it only gives you low self-esteem or causes you to resent them.
As soon as I get old enough I'm moving far far away from my mother and extended family. Even though I live five hours away from my mother when I'm at uni, I still have relatives in the city! It's like an epidemic.