Mairi, all you need to do is ask, but it's all up to what you value. For instance I could go out now and get fucked but I don't because I wouldn't value that as highly as I would if I really loved the person. I think.
mairi, look at it this way, i'm 17, i didnt have a relationship of any form until like a week before my 17th birthday and that wasnt really much of one at that. any guy that doesnt see you as you are, isnt worth more then a passing glance. but if you really want a bf, me and raxo will take you up on your offer of harboring a few draft dodgers...
"if asking, begging and pleading doesn't work, always go with a song and dance number."
My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago and things are really sucking. I lost my job saturday and my girlfriend was the first person I called as soon as I got fired. She said she would be their for me...then like two days after that she calls me and says "I'm not happy with myself and my life. If I can't be happy with myself than how can I make someone else happy. I'm been feeling like crap all month and I can't take it anymore. Seeing whats happening to you makes me think that maybe I should do something with myself. I just need to be single for a bit." Then she proceeded to say that maybe she'll call me back and get back together, she just needed to get herself together. She told me not to wait around for her call and just do what I have to do like I was single. She said she'll call me in a few days to tell me what she wants. So basically we broke up and I am not gonna wait around for that call and get my hopes that we'll get back together. To me, the relationship is over and its time to move on. I know her...and I doubt she'll call...so its over. I feel like crap..ugh it hurts. I miss her like hell. I already took all the stuff that reminds me of her and put it in a shoe box and put it in the attic. I wonder when the hurt will go away...sometimes something triggers a memory and I feel like crying on the spot. This just sucks...
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Put 5 of the saddest Beatle songs and then 5 of the most kick-a** upbeat Beatle songs as a therapy course........Watch the feelngs flood out. Best if your alone but sing them songs at the top of your voice. It's like going through all the emotions in a short space of time only to be rejuvenated by the quality uplifting wisdom that can be found amongst 214 or whatever Beatle songs.
I could really take time crafting my ideal set but off the top of my head quickly, amongst my uplift I would have to have I Got A Feeling, Instant Karma (I know...Lennon) , Run For Your Life, Strawberry fields and The End maybe. Theres defiance, hope and recognition of love amongst those toons.
The sadder would include Long and Winding, I'll Be Back and the samke ilk. They don't neccessarily have to be Beatles toons of course.
Better to be moving on.......Why do girls find that more atrractive?.........They don't....they just don't want no-one else to get their claws into you. lol
Good luck with it all. Just a suggestion along the cure lines. hehehehe
That really sucks, Wordno. I hope things turn out okay for you. Don't let people jerk you around- it's just not worth it.
I got rejected today... or at least practically. The guy I like was looking at some of my DVDs with his friends and they were laughing at my random taste in movies. I overheard him saying, "...all of these, and then, bang! Marilyn Monroe! It's like she's on Ecstasy or she's from some different planet." I didn't stick around to hear the rest. Plus, I could tell that he wasn't into me from the way he acted when I was around. Just not cool and edgy enough for him, I guess.
Still, it's better than saying "I like you" and then getting rejected to your face. It's a good thing I didn't say anything.
You're so vain, you probably think this post is about you.
Well, I was also 17 when this all happened to me too....for the first time. At the time, Hello Goodbye was on the charts. Very coincidentally! So I used to sing "I'm Looking Through You" to myself to help get me through it all. I wish we had access to earlier takes of that song in those days. Take 1 was pretty angry. I like it better than the released take. Every time I hear it, it takes me back.
And In The End, we have remained friends to this day.
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