my girlfriend broke up with me today. first girl i actually cared for too. i feel like im full of crapola

Sorry to hear that, but theres plenty of fish in the sea. Its always tough for the first bit but It will go away eventually.

ya, i figured that ill be a little out of it for the first two weeks, masking my emotions with the usual sarcasim and jokes, and then ill be back to my assholy self again

why wait????kidding i have a mask or two i could send you.......we are here if you wanna talk....

better to have lost and loved....

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crap, my gf returns home today and i still havent gotten her the second half of her V-day present...maybe ill give it to her next month as a birthday present

Had this something to do ...?

I second pc31's words ... masks included!

After all, all we're doing here is talking ... you know you've already got us by your side ...  

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Had this something to do ...?

hahaha, well something to do with that...lets say i ended up getting her grounded because her timing was bad.

but heres the real twist, shes now talking mess about me behind my back. so now its more of "my god shes a fucking b****" then "what the f*** did i do wrong?"

...and this is the teenage romances old people remenice about?

thanks for the support

...hey mairi, wanna grab a coffee sometime (oh the joys of rebound)

Ah, girlfriends.... You think to find gold, but there's not even a rusty nail in it...

you gotta play like you ain't hurting too dude,play he who cares the least...show her you moved on already and act like nothing she does even affects you...she will come back around if you do that...but under no circumstances take her back....

hahaha, yea i know. hell after this mess i wouldnt go back with her even if she paid me...well, depending on how much

...hmm, as it turns out in yet another twist, she isnt talking mess about me, the kid just said that because "he wanted to see me cry"...id rather dropkick his a**

Quoted from somedude210

...hmm, as it turns out in yet another twist, she isnt talking mess about me, the kid just said that because "he wanted to see me cry"...id rather dropkick his a**

You definitely should!

          I mean...violence isn't the answer

of course it isnt...unless its this kid

the bigger man always walks away........

my buddy says he can help call 1 800 cal wolf

Sorry to jump in this late.   Sorry, SD, about your breakup.  

If there's an upside, it'll make you appreciate the next person you hook up with even more.  

Write some songs, listen to music, chill out, etc.  

Instead of hitting that other kid, shake his hand and thank him for letting you know just how big a tool he really is.

hahaha yea i know, violence isnt the answer. but on the upside i told the kid to grow a pair before he does something idiotic like that again. eh, maybe ill still get her as a prom date, cause frankly, 2 months before the prom...not a whole lot of open dates left. and shes a year behind so unless she has some friend my age, shes not going.

hey might as well, shes not a bad person. just has some wacked out friends

Hey mate, at least you can sing "I'm A Loser" with all the passion in the world. You once had a girl which is more than I can say for myself, I have no mates anymore, no girl, at least I have a job. If I didn't I'd kill myself. I been waiting for 5 years, lost a huge amount of weight and spent ridiculous amounts of money on pretty clothes to no avail.

I'm off of the MJ too. It saved my life, now I just need to meet her and well... maybe I'll be happy.

You got no problems pal.

Down & Out in Paris and London - Great read

hey, master of going faster (sorry, ive stolen your name at one point) i was like that too dude, i was at the end of my rope before she came along, and even though we hate eachother now, but still, best month of my life, got me back on track. you'll have the same happen to you soon dude. dont worry, dont rush it. itll happen, maybe you even have one out there now.

maybe we should keep this thread for anyone thats going through a rough patch and just wants to let it out to people that care...for the most part

Quoted from somedude210

hey, master of going faster (sorry, ive stolen your name at one point) i was like that too dude, i was at the end of my rope before she came along, and even though we hate eachother now, but still, best month of my life, got me back on track. you'll have the same happen to you soon dude. dont worry, dont rush it. itll happen, maybe you even have one out there now.

maybe we should keep this thread for anyone thats going through a rough patch and just wants to let it out to people that care...for the most part

Cheers pal, and good idea.

I just broke up with my girlfriend today. We were going out for a year and 2 months and suddenly it all started to go downhill. She was always getting mad at me and treating me like crap and I had enough. Its tough to go through but it something everyone goes through. how are you doing now somedude210? How long did it take for the hurt to go away?

Quoted from ma_tt2

I just broke up with my girlfriend today. We were going out for a year and 2 months and suddenly it all started to go downhill. She was always getting mad at me and treating me like crap and I had enough. Its tough to go through but it something everyone goes through. how are you doing now somedude210? How long did it take for the hurt to go away?

Sorry for you Matt. Ehm, it will take around a year and two months to get over it...

lol, Im kind of glad Im out of that relationship, stuck in that for too long.

Well no job, no girlfriend, no mates and no money.

I thought it was all getting better as well. I thought me and this girl I've known for 16 months were certain. I bumped into her when I left the pub one night and kissed her all the way to her front door, turns out she goes to another country for a week asks to meet me and then we go and see her ex, then she tells me to go away. Now she want nothing to do with me. I've had my first kiss though, at least I know how to kiss now.

All I need is to love somebody who loves me and then it all begins. Who can see it?

Quoted from ma_tt2

I just broke up with my girlfriend today. We were going out for a year and 2 months and suddenly it all started to go downhill. She was always getting mad at me and treating me like crap and I had enough. Its tough to go through but it something everyone goes through. how are you doing now somedude210? How long did it take for the hurt to go away?

hey, dont worry man. im out of the blue and living life to its fullest man. it'll hurt for awhile, but it gets better. only thing that really hurt me was that she was the first one i cared for and she treated me like mess.

i'm trying to change, get out of my old ways. i have found that, you know, once you go all the way, the urge to do it again isnt as strong. just something about it. whatever. you'll get through it man

Somebody, anybody, love me please.

Quoted from somedude210

hey, dont worry man. im out of the blue and living life to its fullest man. it'll hurt for awhile, but it gets better. only thing that really hurt me was that she was the first one i cared for and she treated me like mess.

i'm trying to change, get out of my old ways. i have found that, you know, once you go all the way, the urge to do it again isnt as strong. just something about it. whatever. you'll get through it man

Right now I'm sort of changing everything I use to do with her that she didn't like. I guess that's a good part of every break up it will make you a little better of a person.

hey, at least you guys have actually HAD relationships *mutters* I've never even been KISSED, for pete's sake.

Quoted from Mairi

hey, at least you guys have actually HAD relationships *mutters* I've never even been KISSED, for pete's sake.

HOW?!     ... Take these ...

  

Quoted from Mairi

hey, at least you guys have actually HAD relationships *mutters* I've never even been KISSED, for pete's sake.

yea, well thats because the guys in your area just have no taste in women. we all love you here, some more then others *cough* raxo *cough*  

so cheers to you for not having to deal with this crap

Mairi, all you need to do is ask, but it's all up to what you value. For instance I could go out now and get fucked but I don't because I wouldn't value that as highly as I would if I really loved the person. I think.

Mairi, have you seen those two^?  

mairi, look at it this way, i'm 17, i didnt have a relationship of any form until like a week before my 17th birthday and that wasnt really much of one at that. any guy that doesnt see you as you are, isnt worth more then a passing glance. but if you really want a bf, me and raxo will take you up on your offer of harboring a few draft dodgers...

raxo (and/or mairi) dont kill me

^If you want some problems ... you can count me out ...  

raxo, you party pooper