Omigosh, I am SO jealous, Kevin! I would LOVE to see the Queen Mary in person. My father and his wife were just out there (near Long Beach), and they didn't visit (!!!).
I have heard it is haunted. I normally would ignore such rumors, but a prominent ocean liner expert and former friend of mine (we've lost touch) used to work there and said he really does believe it is haunted, and he is not the kind to say such a thing lightly.
I saw in a documentary once that the QM collided with a smaller ship, the Curacao, during WWII. I think that was the source of the hauntings. I should really get a book on the ship. (And what a coincidence -- my Barnes & Noble member coupons just came in!)
I've heard even brunch there is a wonderful experience. I've also heard that she's in quite bad shape and that repairs would amount to an almost total overhaul. Perhaps you can shed more light on the subject, Kelley!
I hope you and your wife are enjoying your travels, Kevin.