In an act of reverse-defiance, or whatever (who knows how Dirks brain works?) he sent me a parting shot via a PM. It reveals nothing that we didn't already suspect and know, however I feel it's intresting to see what he had to say for himself:
ok ok im closet gay you like :B
I know you're out there Dirk so I shal say this to you: there is no shame in being a homosexual, I do not know your social background so I do not know why you haven't come out so to speak and I feel sorry for your repressed feelings, but I'm sure that there are gay clubs near where you live so I suggest that you go along one night and, you never know, you may get some cock.
I know you mean well and nobody here has any real grudge against you (as far as I can tell). You've just been misunderstood.
You've been very brave to face your feelings.