Well, OK. Two points:
1. I bet you would all agree with this having all the ingredients of misunderstanding, looking at the details.
2. To be preachy for possibly the last time, consider these words I found in a Christian website last night about forgiveness:
Choice is between the slavery of bitterness or the freedom of forgiveness.
Forgiveness means not using the past against the offender.
Forgiveness does not mean tolerating the sin or abuse.
Why forgive? To stop the pain! As we live in unforgiveness the offender still hurts us! I bet also you would all agree with these words, even if you're not religious by nature.
I therefore forgive and hope for forgiveness! If I couldn't take this approach, all my Love&Peace sensibilities would be false!
Let's shake hands then, cybernetically!(?)
I've always warmly regarded your support and sincerity, Raxo. You are absolutely right, and I'll put it all behind me. I actually found it more exciting in a way to go off for a while, and then return. Something that seemed bigger to return to. Well, I hope that things continue around here in the good spirit they usually have been in. It's that which has largely kept my interest over the last 15 months.
Love&Peace offerings to you all! (heart2)